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November 25, 2005

Another Reason GREEN is my favorite color

grich2.jpg I wonder what the new Grinch would think of today's festivities. Is it just me or was the term Black Friday once used to describe the stock market crash of 1869? Does anyone remember that Black Friday was also a poem penned by the BTK killer? Or that Boris Karloff and Bela Lugosi starred in a horror film entitled Black Friday? I doubt the thousands of shoppers standing in line at 5 AM today thought about this. The extra 10% off or Buy three/get one free promotion was first and foremost in their minds.

It's not that I don't want or need to save money, but the arrogance of retailers thinking that my sleep is worth a mere 8-10 dollars is insulting. If Dillards, Gap, and JCPenneys really want my business, they will have to come up with something more for me. Instead of the usually 20% off from 5AM to 11AM, how about 40% off while someone rubs my feet? Or 30% off on Saturday mornings WITH childcare provided by sweet nuns without rulers? There's always the personal shopper offer, too. Who would refuse the comfort of their own home while a hired shopper stands in line for you, finds the exact item, and delivers them gift wrapped at a huge discount?

Jim Carrey's Grinch makes a solid case, however, about where our priorities lie with our most festive season. It's turned into what we give instead of why we celebrate. The number of presents under the tree now has more meaning than the joy of Christ's birth. Maybe we should foster the Grinch in all of us the next time we stand in line for an XBox, talking Elmo, or sequined handbag.

In the meantime, good luck to all of you who bravely enter the malls and shops across the country. Remember, it will all be over December 26th..and then the Season of Returns will begin.

Posted by Tish at November 25, 2005 12:05 PM

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I take a lot of heat for it, but I have chosen NOT to bring Santa into our family Christmas celebrations because it's all about getting and nothing about giving. Christ received three gifts when he was born so I try to keep my buying to three major gifts for my son, too. We focus on the gifts we're excited to give to people and the time and love we put into them. We don't create lists of "wants". I think we all need to do all we can to make sure CHRIST is first and foremost in CHRISTmas.

Posted by: Bea at November 25, 2005 04:11 PM

I was one of the crazies out there today, and actually saved a couple hundred dollars over the course of the day. We celebrate the commercial version of Christmas, but we're not Christian, so it holds little religous meaning to us. I did have a really great time bonding with my girlfriend today, and we found lots of great things for our husbands and children, so I'm pretty happy! :)

Posted by: Crystal at November 25, 2005 04:55 PM

I didn't go out but I did watch news clips of people rushing into stores knocking a few people down in the process. I did note a very interesting one in which a woman fell down and her wig went flying, which set her to crying, eventually someone helped her up but a number of people went around her, list in hand, purchases on their mind.
I'm not very religious, I do resent businesses treating people like cattle, turning them into a restrained mob; trying to be civil but damn it! They have to get "something!"

Posted by: Paul of York at November 25, 2005 10:31 PM

wow Tish, I didn't know all those things were attributed to Black Friday, this is the first year I ever remember it being called that. I didn't particularly like the term, but I didn't go out there and shop either, I am with you, and as Crystal stated about treating people like cattle, that is exactly how it is and people act like these material things are priceless, Lord help us!

Posted by: Dana at November 26, 2005 06:47 AM

LMAO...so now the first shopping day after Thanksgiving is "Black Friday" too, eh? Not for me: I avoid the mall like the plague after Thanksgiving. My gift giving acquisition is done in advance ;)

As for the deeper meaning of the holiday, I leave that to each individual to recall, retain, and observe. I observe it my way, while happily thumbing my nose at the politically correct, whiny activist morons who seek to gut the public displays of Christmas and Christianity at all costs.

Posted by: Skunkfeathers at November 26, 2005 11:21 AM

I know this was a tongue-in-cheek post, but the deeper meaning is clear. This is what "the world" wishes, to turn a day in which we celebrate the birth of our saviour into a generic day of gift-giving -- actually, a day that screams of "Me! Me! Me!" We give more thought to shopping and getting a name crossed off our list, getting presents wrapped, and buying a gift that we give without a true sense of giving that comes from the heart. Then we sit and rip the paper off in anticipation of what someone else got for us.

It's not that giving gifts is wrong; the intent is what has been misplaced. Somewhere in all of this commercialism we have lost sight of the ONE reason Christmas exists, and as "the world" strips it away to just a shallow day of retailers trying to beat each other to the punch, we deny Him. Saying "happy holidays" in order not to offend someone who doesn't believe in it is offensive to ME. If they don't believe in CHRISTMAS, then why do they partake in the festivities?

Merry CHRISTMAS, Tish. :)

Posted by: FTS at November 26, 2005 11:53 AM

The Season of the Returns is the Giant La Brea Tar Pits of Hell. This is precisely why I tell the kids I don't want nothin' I don't need nothin' Bah Humbug.

Posted by: old horsetail snake at November 26, 2005 12:57 PM

Hey I fixed your link on my blogroll. Sorry for the delay. I've sucked at bloggin lately :)

I didn't go out shopping yesterday but it looked like there were some great deals...

Posted by: Kym at November 26, 2005 07:03 PM

I'm thinking I'll join up with Reverend Billy and The Church of Stop Shopping. I might even go on The Stop Shopping Gospel Choir's Shopocalypse Tour.
Hoss- Giant La Brea Tar Pits of Hell, indeed! Good one.

Posted by: Vicki at November 27, 2005 10:49 AM

I'm with you on this one. However, while I stayed in bed and begged the children to be quiet while they watched Nickelodeon my husband went off to brave the sales with the baby in tow.

I'm still not sure it was worth it--but apparently it was worth it to him.

Posted by: sleepingmommy at November 27, 2005 05:44 PM

This is like the third blog where I've seen the shopping day after Thanksgiving referred to as Black Friday, and I had never heard that before. As for me, I spent a couple of hours in my favorite store, Target, but otherwise avoided the masses.

I'm with you all the way on both the presumption of retailers that 20% off is enough to get me out of bed at 5 am on a coveted day off, and on the priorities of the season.

Posted by: Monique at November 27, 2005 10:03 PM

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